Ladies, if a man really likes you and he's not the shy, timid type, he will express interest in you. If you like him too, then make it known to him. DO NOT play games, do not play hard to get. And I’m not talking about when you're at a social event or school, tempting and teasing a guy, wanting him to work for her number. That’s cool, nothing wrong with that.
Many of you need to realize that a man who continues to chase you, continues to pursue you, after you've shown him that you're not interested, is a man who doesn't respect boundaries. He's likely an abuser and probably even a narcissist. It might sound nice and feel good to be chased after you've said no. But you're playing with fire.
Just think about it. A man expresses interest in you. You want to be chased because that's what you believe men should do so you say no. If that person is a decent human being who respect boundaries, he accepts your no. What kind of person keeps chasing after you say no? A person who does not respect boundaries. A person who refuses to take no for an answer. A person who feels entitled to have you.
What kind of person is an abuser? A person who does not respect boundaries. A person who refuses to take no for an answer. A person who feels entitled to have you. You see my point? So don't play mind games with guys, because you just might end up with a possessive/controlling one, or worse, a narcissist.